There are opportunities for educational and interest driven activities all around us but no where are they more readily available than on the World Wide Web. I wonder if we parents are prepared for the global reach of these intrusions into our parenting practices?
Our children no longer depend solely on the advice of their closest friends. Friends that we as parents can get to know and trust as not more or less worldly than our own children. There is so much information available to our children today on the internet, in the privacy of our homes, that it is often easier for our children to look for answers to personal questions on the web than risk the inquiry and concerns of their parents.
Children today are tech savvy - so we parents had better be too! Often our children are independent on the computer before we are. Writing their own web pages, downloading their own pictures, getting into chat rooms and sometimes circumstances that their limited experience hasnot prepared them for, gleaning advice from young or uneducated individuals or people with different values than those of your family.
Of the many potential hazards on the internet faced by our children the sites with the biggest potential for causing the most iserious harm are the teen advice web sites. These kind of sites have the ability to give out incorrect information to a stunningly large number of individuals by posting questions and the answering reply right to their web page. Only one teenager need ask the question and many more will believe the answer, correct or not, because its written right there in front of them and they are often too afraid or too embarrassed to look for another opinion. These question and answer sites are most often presided over by young, inexperienced or barely experienced, teens. These teen "counselors" are typically ages 13 and up. They give free, solicited, advice on everything from health care, sex and birth control, mental emotional health concerns and legal issues. These sites rarely have adult preceptors. Most sites do have a disclaimer stating that they are not responsible, nor liable for your teens life or any further problems your teen may experience in relation to the advice given. Those simply worded disclaimers wonot protect your teenager from the potential harm of an often-misinformed "teen counselor" who dishes out incorrect and possibly dangerous information.
Anything your teen wants to know and may not want to ask you about is available on the internet. These teen advice sites cover just about every subject you can imagine and many you wouldnot want to. There are Pro-Anorexia. sites - dedicated to the encouragement of anorexic and bulimic behaviors. Sites specifically to give advice to young teens on methods of birth control (one of these I was presided over by a sexually active, 13 year old, girl). Gay, lesbian and straight sexuality sites. Sites for the practice of self-abuse and mutilation, Sites for finding ways to get high and more.
In reading some of these I was most amazed by the sheer volume of incorrect, often potentially life-threatening advice doled out by these "teen counselors." They covered such topics as how many additional birth control pills to take if your partner didnot use a condom. How to maintain a successful anorexic diet. The best way to purge and getting the cheapest high from everyday, household items. Do these internet isites serve a useful purpose? Yes, I think they can if they are catalysts for discussion between parents and their children. We have all read the flood of warnings about the internet hazards our children face, there seems to be a plethora of new ones daily, but these hazards can be educational tools as well. You can turn them into unique opportunities to increase our childrens knowledge and self-confidence. You can empower your children to find and make the right choices for themselves and to learn to trust their inner voices.
Give your children guidelines on what you find acceptable. If they want to explore something outside of those guidelines tell them it needs to be done with a parent so you are able to talk about any issues that arise. Teens want, need and deserve privacy and showing them where to get high quality, up to date information will help empower them to make safe choices.
Not all-teen sites should be grouped into one negative category. I found some high quality sites, for very young children up through the teen years, which offer complete, correct, and responsible information. Though no one site will match everybodys family values and preferences it may be a good idea for parents to search out isome of the sites they feel are best isuited to their own family and email or bookmark them for their children.
Here are a few sites to check out Kids Health, Everyday Illness and Injuries www.kidshealth.org
This is a great site for younger children to gain comforting information about common childhood questions, illnesses and injuries. Great basic information without the "fear-factor".
Cool Nurse is also (www.coolnurse.com) a great site with lots of high quality teen information! As a nurse myself I was gratified to see this site up. Its upbeat and packed with information that is up to date and complete on just about any topic a teen could wonder about. This comprehensive site is also written in a modern, straightforward, non-condescending style that all age groups will appreciate.
Teen Advice On-Line http://www.teenadviceonline.org This site has many articles with teen oriented topics. Seems conservative without preaching. Most of these counselors are 18 to 24 years in and they are from all over the globe.
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